Increasing the chances of getting pregnant can be done in many ways. There are from natural methods to complex surgery, prescription drugs and artificial insemination.
If you decided to have a baby and unsuccessfully tried, don’t lose hope. There are still some things you can do.
Getting discouraged in the possibility to get pregnant can have several causes: past chronic miscarriages, a late age (late 30’s, even 40’s), IUI and IVF procedures with no result. However, these are not enough reasons to give up the idea. Here is what you can do to get back on track.
1. Positive thinking
A PCOS diagnostic made me loose hope in ever giving birth. The doctors had no hope for me, either and I believed them. It was wrong for me to do so. Pills and certain methods are not the only solution. You need to think that you can actually get pregnant, that it is not an impossible thought. This helps the most. Try to feel as if you are already a mother and imagine all that. Dreams can become true and for me it happened in less than 3 months.
2. Try several dimensional treatments
One dimensional treatment such as changing the diet, the sexual positions, taking hormone pills is good, but not the only way. If it fails, it gives you the feeling nothing else will work. This is not the case. There are holistic and natural methods that can help you get pregnant in 2 months time. Just trust nature to do its work on your body.
3. 35 or 45 is not an impossible age to become a mother
The common believe says that once women pass the age of 35, not to mention 40, pregnancy is out of the question. Reality has proved this to be just a misconception.
4. 2 Months is not an unrealistic time to become pregnant
Trying methods that fail over and over again can be very discouraging. It can get you depressed seeing how your efforts are in vain. Don’t take for granted what your doctors say if they tell you that there is no chance that you can become a mother. In my case, they were proved to be wrong. Holistic and natural methods are of much help and you can conceive a baby in no more than 90 days.
The decision of having a baby is a crucial moment in a couple’s life. It is thrilling, but also quite stressing. Though it may sound very easy, you don’t just have sex once and the next morning you are already pregnant. Although not impossible, it is rather unlikely. For some women it takes months before they get pregnant.
What you should know is that conceiving a child does not happen all at once, but in time. If you are too much focused on trying rather then on enjoying the process, then this stress will only block you from being fertile.
A visit to the OBGYN is the first thing you should do once you decided to become a mother. It is just for checking that all is in order and that you are physically ready to have a baby.
Once you have the doctor’s approval, the next step is to take a look over your diet. If your daily diet is a chaotic one, it is the good moment to start eating healthy. Proper nutrition is essential for a future pregnancy to develop well. Fruit and fresh food should be the base of your new eating habits. Folic acid is a vital element, so eat those foods which contain it. Your partner should also adopt a healthy life style in order to produce healthy sperm.
Proper hydration is another important aspect, so you should drink at least 2 l of water per day. Caffeine should be cut up, as well as smoking. Alcohol and drugs are forbidden.
The following step is the timing. There are certain days of your menstrual cycle in which you have the most chances of getting pregnant. To establish those days you need to chart your monthly cycle. There are free charts on the internet to help you with that. Having recording these data can help you if an infertility test would be eventually necessary.
On the first day of the menstruation you need to take your temperature. Before getting into action, you also need to check the temperature in the morning. This way you can have a better idea whether on that day you are fertile or not. The body’s temperature rises on the day following the ovulation. The increase of temperature is about 4 degrees.
Once the ovulation is identified, then you can start programming. Getting pregnant has most chances to happen on several days before the ovulation and up to two days after the ovulation takes place. Drinking a lot of water is recommended during this time, to increase the cervical fluid.
No matter the method you use, don’t forget to enjoy conceiving your future child.
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